“严是爱，松是害”，严格是为了员工不受伤害，是为了员工自己好。员工应该理解严格管理的出发点。如果别人为他好，他还要骂别人，那实在是不知好歹了，是素质问题。管理上按制度去办，无论什么岗位，无论什么身份，安全面前，安全管理面前，安全管理制度面前，一视同仁。受到处罚，员工有什么理由去骂管理者？要骂只能骂制度，而制度不是针对员工每一个人制定的，骂制度也毫无道理可言。
当然，安全管理没有哭声没有骂声，只是理想境界。没有哭声，是我们追求的结果；没有骂声，很多情况下不太可能。因为，人们的利益不同，思想认识不同，修养水平不同，受到处罚的反映也不同。但是，我们在管理中可以做到的是公平，“一碗水端平”，任何人没有话说。管理要人性化，尊重他人尊重自己，让被管理者知道管理者的良苦用心，才能达到“没有骂声也没有哭声”的安全管理理想局面。
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“Would rather hear the quarrelling sound, unwilling to hear the cry sound” ------on my own understanding of the management of production safety
As a safety professional, I am very like safety aphorism, if encounter fresh going down, such as" strict is the love, the pine is the evil, careless accident. Strict is the love, the pine is the evil, protect safety benefit three generation." This safety patter can be spread, because said is the truth.
“Strict is the love, the pine is the evil," said very reasonable, but justified, not everyone can accept. Strict management, management is very strict, avoids the incident/accident, may also be brought against complain even cursing; pine is the evil, management slack, leading dare not offend a person, not an accident" good position everyone I am ", the accident casualties, victims of bloodshed and tears, the person being punished will be greatly frustration. Therefore, there are a people for having heard it many times as saying: “would rather hear the quarrelling sound, unwilling to hear the cry sound." The cries and condemning the inside knowledge, deep said: crying and condemning the closely related, each premise. A favor may not cry. If the management is not strict, not condemning, accident after crying, there will be a greater blame. To cry and condemning the relationship, there are many people who study, is not being published research results. Someone once said that ignores safe production is the worker crime. On the safety management to strictly, to knowing that mountain tiger, toward danger. Listen to voices, do not cry. Safety production performance in specific matters. Big ancient capital is a small violation caused by the accident never happened before, it is trivial, produced is important. To resolutely from small catch, catch thing, event; grasping things, and events. The purpose is to find not to have an accident. Violation is not must have an accident, but the incident is certainly illegal. On habitual violation, cannot be used no matter. People are not sure every violation cause accident occurs, the 100 violation may not be an accident, but may also be a violation you even have no chance to regret. Can you hold violation accidents randomness? The answer is yes: not. Would you like build your safety base on the "lucky”? Certainly not! In the final analysis, the most critical is to control the unsafe behavior and potential risk; we rely on the sense of safety and safety responsibility.